Plans In Married Life - Some Insights

Plans In  Married Life - Some Insights

                  Plans In Married Life - Some Insights

We often hear about work life balance--dealing with children would be the first thing that comes to mind as we are confronted with this issue. Balancing acts are usually performed well, if feet are planted firmly on the ground. Is work life balance possible if poised on a teetering economy ?

. Work hard, party hard became their mantra (prayers). They are having field days. Work @ sex was unheard in olden days except in film field and showman business (casting couch system). As long as dead lines were met MNC authorities are not bothered about behind the closed-door affairs. They neither encouraged nor imposed code of conduct inside their office premises.

 Long and unearthly working hours brought its own problems.  There is visible change in values In personnel and professional level of those who work in MNC. Live in relationship, unhappy married life, casual sex, and break down on social contacts. In working couples infidelity became part of their life. Even though couple lives within the four walls they have no time for each other's. They lived in their own world. Exmartial relationship is now acceptable among many couples. Morels and family values are fast disappearing even in middle class family. Roots and family values are no longer revenant even in middle class families.

One of the reasons why we feel bothered is because we simply can't put a finger to what exactly is troubling us. It's logical that the left-side is heavier since work is necessary. More time at work equates to increased take-home pay, and the higher the paycheck received, the more financial relief is provided. In today's economic state, employment does have a lot of bearing in terms of weight or importance. This is even true for the work at home parent.

  Oh, I almost forgot, there is that one other member of the family which was not in those sitcoms of the 80's, the computer. It may sound odd to call it a member of the family, but when you start to notice how much time it gets for "recreation" by each of you, if you are not careful you will find you are spending more time with the computer than with your spouse. Combine the computer and television and before you know it the two hours of "quality time" you have with your new spouse is greatly reduced. Now that my wife and I have a fifteen month old son, we have realized that he clearly deserves part of our "quality time" as well, considering there is nothing more important in our lives to us than our child. Guess what, all of a sudden that quality alone time you planned to spend with your spouse is extremely limited during the week.

  This is one of several reasons why I think that in the 21st century it is not all that bad an idea to live with your future spouse before making that decision to spend the rest of your life with them. Another item that is difficult for newlyweds to adjust to sometimes is how to handle the household finances. Some couples pool their money and pay the bills together. Others pool the money and decide for one of them to handle the paying of the bills. Of course these days some even decide after marriage to have multiple bank accounts. These are one for each individual and one for "community money". This has some advantages such as keeping individual credit worthiness. In reality you will not know which will work best for you until you actually experience it. Living together would give you the opportunity to participate in the concept of individual accounts along with a community account. This way you could see if you would like to continue that after marriage or pool your money together.

Manufactures increased number of franchise to six and gradually increased number of technician to 24 (in our franchise) or per person for per pin code to give customer immediate response .it means per pin code area per person, thus reducing call attending time and reducing our nos. of service calls .our manufacture appointed five more franchise. Manufacture says sell accessories and makes extra money for the lost service calls .all the accessories were over prized. Delhi made items, some chine’s spare parts; some of the items are even sold by footpath sellers! Selling was tough.  Since most of accessories sold along with appliance by the dealers at the time of selling appliances. Company offered us some incentives like, if we sell these items we get a consolation amount of 50 peanuts .the highest being 100 peanuts.

Previous relationships- This issue may seem petty but it is highly important especially if one of you has been previously married or has had children before. It is very important to consider this issue as you might need to incorporate into your own family life the children or adjust some expenses due to child support, alimony, etc.